Aftrede is ’n Lewensreis

Riaan Botha • May 2, 2025

Afgetredenes se behoeftes verskil na aanleiding van hul ouderdom. Die behoeftes van ‘n 66-jarige verskil met dié van ‘n 86-jarige. Dr Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, ’n Amerikaans-Switserse sielkundige het die vyf fases van die lewensreis van aftrede so opgesom:


  • Die fase van verbeelding. Hierdie periode dek 15 jaar of meer voor aftrede waartydens mense begin verbeel of visualiseer hoe hul aftrede eendag gaan lyk en hoe hulle dit gaan geniet. Dit is wanneer daar aktief beplan word oor watter finansies nodig gaan wees om hul beplande aftrede te kan geniet.


  • Die fase van afwagting. Hierdie periode begin ongeveer vyf jaar voor aftrede. Opgewondenheid neem toe met die naderende datum van aftrede en meer spesifieke planne word beraam oor hoe om dit te geniet. Reise word geïdentifiseer en ’n moontlike aftree-adres word bespreek. Afsprake word gemaak met ’n finansiële adviseur om te bepaal of daar genoegsame aftree-geld beskikbaar gaan wees vir die beplande aftrede.


  • Bevryding. Die beplande dag van aftrede het aangebreek en daar bestaan gemengde gevoelens oor die vryheid van aftrede, die verlies aan sekuriteit van ’n vaste werk met ’n inkomste en jou afhanklikheid van jou aftree-inkomste. Daar word gereken dat die opgewondenheid van die nuwe vryheid wat met aftrede gepaard gaan so ongeveer twee jaar duur.


  • Die fase van reoriëntasie. Gedurende hierdie periode word die nuwe lewensomstandighede en nuwe geleenthede tydens aftede geniet. Hierdie nuwe uitdagings bring nuwe geluk. Alhoewel gesondheids- en finansiële kwessies opduik, geniet die meeste afgetredenes hierdie periode, wat ongeveer 15 jaar duur.



  • Die fase van aanpassing: Gedurende die daaropvolgende aantal jare word daar aangepas en aanvaar dat die toename in siektes en die beperking van beweging deel is van die ouderdomsbeperkings. Die afsterwe van geliefdes neem toe en die gevolglike hartseer en verlange word deel van jou bestaan. Die nalatenskap van mense se welvaart geniet meer aandag.

 

Aftrede is nie ’n solo-reis sonder die familie nie

 

Die ouer-wordende afgetredenes veroorsaak dat selfs vier geslagte families met ouers, kinders, kleinkinders en agter-kleinkinders meer algemeen voorkom. Multi-geslag-families in dieselfde stad of dorp of selfs huishouding verseker dat ouer-wordende gesinslede nie geïsoleer word of vereensaam nie. Dit verhoed dat aftrede ’n solo-reis sonder sosiale ondersteuning is.

 

Die realiteit dat groot getalle jongmense Suid Afrika verlaat om in ’n gevestigde ekonomie internasionaal te werk, het tot gevolg dat talle plaaslike afgetrede ouers se kinders in ander lande woon. Die gevorderde digitale era waarin ons leef, maak dit gelukkig maklik om kontak te hou met oorsese familie, maar dit vervang nie persoonlike familie-sorg nie.

 

 

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