Retirement is a life journey
Riaan Botha • May 2, 2025
Retirees’ needs differ according to their age. The needs of a 66-year-old differ from those of an 86-year-old. Dr Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, an American-Swiss psychologist, has summarised the life journey’s five phases of retirement as follows:
- The phase of imagination. This period covers the 15 years or more before retirement when people start to imagine or visualise what their retirement will look like one day and how they will enjoy it. This is when they actively plan what finances they will need to enjoy their planned retirement.
- The phase of anticipation. This period begins about five years before retirement. Excitement increases as the retirement date approaches and more specific plans for enjoying retirement are made. Travels are identified and a possible retirement address is discussed. Appointments are made with a financial adviser to determine whether sufficient retirement funds will be available for the planned retirement.
- Liberation. The planned day of retirement has dawned and you experience mixed feelings about the freedom of retirement, the loss of the security of a permanent job with an income and your dependence on your retirement income. The excitement of the new freedom accompanying retirement is estimated to last about two years.
- The phase of reorientation. During this period, the new circumstances of life and opportunities of retirement are enjoyed. These new challenges bring new happiness. Although health and financial issues arise, most retirees enjoy this period which lasts about 15 years.
- The phase of adaptation: During the following years, adaptation occurs, along with the acceptance of an increase in illnesses and restricted movement as part of the limitations of old age. The increasing loss of loved ones and the resulting grief and longing become a part of your existence. More attention is given to the bequeathing of affluence.
Retirement is not a solo journey without the family
With retirees now reaching higher ages, even four-generation families including parents, children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren are becoming more common. Multigenerational families living in the same city, town or even household ensure that ageing family members do not become isolated or lonely. This prevents retirement from being a solo journey without social support.
Because of the reality that large numbers of young people are leaving South Africa to go work within an established economy internationally, many local retired parents’ children live in other countries. The advanced digital age in which we live, fortunately, makes it easy to maintain contact with overseas family members, but this does not replace personal familial care.
South Africa has officially been removed off the Financial Action Task Force's (FATF) grey list as of October 24, 2025. This comes after 33 months of work to strengthen the country's anti-money laundering and counter-terrorism systems. Why Was South Africa Grey Listed in the first place? In February 2023, the FATF placed South Africa on the grey list due to weaknesses in its ability to enforce anti-money laundering regulations. These included ineffective investigations and prosecutions, particularly in severe money laundering and terrorist financing cases. To get off the list, South Africa needed to accomplish 22 action items. By June 2025, the FATF reported that all items had been handled. Although some areas, like as prosecutions, require improvement, this did not prevent the country from being removed from the list. What is the Function of the Financial Intelligence Centre (FIC)? The Financial Intelligence Centre helped South Africa achieve FATF regulations. It enhanced how it oversees businesses and professions that deal with money but are not banks, employing stronger risk assessment tools and compliance measures. The FIC also collaborated extensively with law enforcement, promoting the use of financial intelligence in investigations. This resulted in genuine results, such as the freezing of approximately R157 million in suspected illegal funds and the recovery of nearly R144 million in stolen money. What impact did the listing have on the Economy and Investments? Being on the Grey List increased the cost and complexity of foreign transactions. It also harmed investor confidence, particularly while South Africa holds the G20 presidency in 2025. Financial experts predict that now that the country is no longer on the list, investor sentiment will improve. According to PPS Investments, this may lead to: Improved access to global capital. A stronger Rand. Increased interest in South African stocks A better climate for the local property markets. This change contributes to a more favourable view for South Africa's economy and investment landscape. How do South Africa compares to other countries that was grey listed? South Africa's 33-month stint on the grey list is comparable to other countries. Tanzania required 33 months, Nigeria 25 months, Mozambique 37 months, and Burkina Faso 57 months. What's next? South Africa is already planning for the next FATF mutual evaluation, which is scheduled for 2026-2027. The FIC states that, while leaving the grey list is a significant step forward, the country must continue to improve its mechanisms for combating financial crime.
Have you ever stopped to ask yourself: What will I actually do every day when I retire? It sounds like such a simple question, yet very few people think about it in a practical way. You might have a plan for your finances, but have you thought about your time? Will your days be filled with purpose and activity—or will you find yourself just sitting around, wondering what to do next? From my experience working with retired clients, people tend to go one of two ways: they either become passive or they stay active and engaged. When you first retire, the main concern is usually financial. Will my money last for the rest of my life? But after a few months, that anxiety often fades, and a new question emerges: What is my purpose now? I recently read a remarkable book by Bob Buford called Halftime. Buford was extremely successful financially, but tragedy struck when he lost his son. That loss made him reflect deeply on what truly mattered in life. He realized that while money is important, purpose is what gives life meaning. Buford explains this through the Sigmoid Curve : Curve 1 represents the first part of your life—learning, growing, and mastering your craft. This typically takes you up to around age 50, when you might feel like you’ve reached a plateau or are just coasting toward retirement. Curve 2 is the next chapter—when your focus shifts from inward to outward, from success to significance. This is where you find fulfillment by contributing, giving back, and making a difference in your community. The retirees who thrive the most aren’t the ones who just relax all day. They’re the ones who stay involved, serve others, and wake up each morning with a sense of purpose. A Final Thought The Bible tells us that Abraham had his first child at the age of 100, and his wife Sarah was 90. That story reminds us that no matter your age, there’s still a promise and a purpose over your life. You still have something valuable to give. So as you plan your retirement, don’t just think about your finances—think about your purpose. Don’t be passive. Be active. Be intentional. Live with purpose.
